Some believe that fate determines their lives. Others abide by the expression, “Life is what you make it.” Although it’s fine to believe in fate, if you want something different, exhilarating, or exciting in life, it might not work out so well to sit around waiting for fate to produce it. Instead, why not see your life as something you have a hand in? Use these strategies to create the adventures you yearn for: Try something different. Shake up your routine. For example, if every Friday night you go to the same restaurant for seafood, this Friday, go to the …