I have been hearing the phrase, “That is eye candy,” when someone is referring to a beautiful scene,landscape or person. This quote is one that reminds me that we all would profit by looking at our own beauty as beauty that radiates from the inside out when we feel good about how we feel inside and become empowered when we surround ourselves with the deliciousness we deserve…
“True beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which means that how beautiful you are to other people is always going to be subjective to who are looking at you at that time, and since you will always be looking at yourself first, you should find your own beauty and feel good about who you are.” BeNeca Ward.
When we think of candy, we can imagine the taste of the sweetness. This is how we can learn to embrace our own beauty, inside and out. When I was a small child, I was teased about my red hair and freckles, and oh yes, my skinny legs that my brother threw in for good measure, just to be sure I never ever got conceited, He called me “peg Leg.” All the while he was making sure that I also was pounded with the reminder that I was dumb.
I carried those beliefs as part of my person until I was a grown woman. Sure and certain that I was ugly and dumb. . I suffered for many years believing this was true but with an inborn drive to extinguish this belief. The angst began to build up a fire inside me. I had an unknown power that I began to plug into that led me very slowly to ultimately conquer those untrue beliefs.It led me to the source for the development of a woman with beauty and substance.
This power has been the conduit that supplied me with the courage and energy to the beauty industry, (helping other women bring out their outer beauty,) and the Life Design, (coaching women to uncover and discover their inner strengths.) It is my mission and a commitment to assist women to embrace their inner beauty, believing that they always have been and will always be “EYE CANDY, FROM THE INSIDE OUT.” “INTERNAL BEAUTY RADIATES TO…EXTERNAL AND ETERNAL BEAUTY,” JOCI JAMES, LIFE STRENGTHS DETECTIVE